{"id":288863,"date":"2026-01-15T14:00:06","date_gmt":"2026-01-15T13:00:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/blog\/the-power-of-marital-discord-deciphering-the-90-10-rule\/"},"modified":"2024-08-26T16:35:19","modified_gmt":"2024-08-26T15:35:19","slug":"marital-discords","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/en\/blog\/marital-discords\/","title":{"rendered":"The power of marital discord&nbsp;: deciphering the 90\/\u200b10&nbsp;rule"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"288863\" class=\"elementor elementor-288863 elementor-110592\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4ab4c04d elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4ab4c04d\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2a2de361\" data-id=\"2a2de361\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-419dbf94 elementor-widget elementor-widget-breadcrumbs\" data-id=\"419dbf94\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"breadcrumbs.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p id=\"breadcrumbs\"><span><span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/en\/\">\ud83c\udfe1 Accueil<\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3c5ebf24 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3c5ebf24\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-74c67bc4\" data-id=\"74c67bc4\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-29a7e929 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"29a7e929\" data-element_type=\"widget\" id=\"titre_article\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The power of marital discord&nbsp;: discover the revolutionary 90\/\u200b10&nbsp;rule<\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5692682b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5692682b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>If you\u2019ve been fol\u00adlo\u00adwing us for a while (on <a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"http:\/\/www.instagram\/unio_preparation\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Ins\u00adta\u00adgram<\/a>, via our <a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/newsletter\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">news\u00adlet\u00adter<\/a> or on our <a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/\/en\/blog\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">blog<\/a>), you\u2019re pro\u00adba\u00adbly fami\u00adliar with one of our core prin\u00adciples&nbsp;: <strong>couple fights can be incre\u00addi\u00adbly bene\u00adfi\u00adcial<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f78f91b elementor-widget-mobile__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f78f91b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\ud83d\udca1 Tal\u00adking about argu\u00adments, the dif\u00adfi\u00adcul\u00adties you may expe\u00adrience as a couple and&nbsp;<strong><br>\n  <a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/\/en\/couple-life\/#tip-4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">and how to pre\u00adpare for&nbsp;them<\/a><br>\n<\/strong> are one of the topics cove\u00adred in our ulti\u00admate guide to mar\u00adried&nbsp;life.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-88224d9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"88224d9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tYou may won\u00adder why we make such a claim. Aren\u2019t argu\u00adments within a couple sup\u00adpo\u00adsed to indi\u00adcate under\u00adlying problems&nbsp;?<br>\nIn this article, we\u2019ll delve into the heart of this notion, explai\u00adning <strong>how disa\u00adgree\u00adments in a roman\u00adtic rela\u00adtion\u00adship can actual\u00adly streng\u00adthen bonds<\/strong>.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-aeb22f9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"aeb22f9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\ud83d\ude35 First of all, what is a cou\u00adple\u2019s argument&nbsp;?<\/span>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4732c5b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4732c5b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>It is the expres\u00adsion of divergent opi\u00adnions and disa\u00adgree\u00adments, often accom\u00adpa\u00adnied by an emo\u00adtio\u00adnal charge&nbsp;: anger, sadness\u2026<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-23080b0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"23080b0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tGet rea\u00addy&nbsp;to&nbsp;<strong>\n  <span style=\"color:#f19879;\">dis\u00adco\u00adver the 90\/\u200b10 rule in detail<\/span>\n<\/strong>an intri\u00adguing pers\u00adpec\u00adtive that could well revo\u00adlu\u00adtio\u00adnize the way you think about mari\u00adtal dis\u00adputes.\nA rule that should be in eve\u00adry hap\u00adpy cou\u00adple\u2019s toolbox&nbsp;!&nbsp;<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7ab86318 elementor-toc--minimized-on-tablet elementor-widget elementor-widget-table-of-contents\" data-id=\"7ab86318\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;headings_by_tags&quot;:[&quot;h2&quot;],&quot;exclude_headings_by_selector&quot;:[],&quot;marker_view&quot;:&quot;bullets&quot;,&quot;icon&quot;:{&quot;value&quot;:&quot;fas fa-chevron-circle-right&quot;,&quot;library&quot;:&quot;fa-solid&quot;},&quot;no_headings_message&quot;:&quot;No headings were found on this 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aria-controls=\"elementor-toc__7ab86318\" aria-expanded=\"true\" aria-label=\"Open table of contents\"><i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-list-ul\"><\/i><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__toggle-button elementor-toc__toggle-button--collapse\" role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" aria-controls=\"elementor-toc__7ab86318\" aria-expanded=\"true\" aria-label=\"Close table of contents\"><i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-chevron-up\"><\/i><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div id=\"elementor-toc__7ab86318\" class=\"elementor-toc__body\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-toc__spinner-container\">\n\t\t\t\t<i class=\"elementor-toc__spinner eicon-animation-spin eicon-loading\" aria-hidden=\"true\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-426ed52 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"426ed52\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">1 \u2013 <u>Is it normal<\/u> for a couple to argue a&nbsp;lot&nbsp;?<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4993ec7b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4993ec7b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Our ans\u00adwer is&nbsp;YES&nbsp;!<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b8ec80f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b8ec80f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>We are dee\u00adply convin\u00adced that <strong>argu\u00adments within a couple are not neces\u00adsa\u00adri\u00adly nega\u00adtive<\/strong>. In fact, they can tes\u00adti\u00adfy to a balan\u00adced and heal\u00adthy relationship.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a2ca137 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a2ca137\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>How is this pos\u00adsible&nbsp;? Let us explain.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b2c17a6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"b2c17a6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Disagreements reflect the maintenance of your individual identities.&nbsp;<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-79ba805 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"79ba805\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Each of you has <strong>your own values, opi\u00adnions and expe\u00adriences<\/strong>, which means you can\u2019t agree on eve\u00adry\u00adthing. These dif\u00adfe\u00adrences shouldn\u2019t disap\u00adpear as part of your life toge\u00adther&nbsp;: a suc\u00adcess\u00adful couple is above all two indi\u00advi\u00adduals who retain their identity.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0048b7d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"0048b7d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Conflicts and arguments between couples show your humanity.&nbsp;<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2b7fbe20 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2b7fbe20\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>As human beings, you\u2019re imper\u00adfect&nbsp;: it\u2019s nor\u00admal that hurt\u00adful words can some\u00adtimes be exchan\u00adged, even with the best of inten\u00adtions and des\u00adpite all the love you have for each&nbsp;other.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4759430 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4759430\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Even the stron\u00adgest couples go through crises, and making a rela\u00adtion\u00adship last doesn\u2019t mean avoi\u00adding mari\u00adtal strife at all costs. These conflicts are by no means syno\u00adny\u00admous with the cou\u00adple\u2019s failure.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1bed44d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1bed44d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Conflict increases your intimacy.&nbsp;<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b70df55 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b70df55\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">In addi\u00adtion to being nor\u00admal, these tense moments offer the oppor\u00adtu\u00adni\u00adty for a bet\u00adter mutual unders\u00adtan\u00adding and a dee\u00adpe\u00adning of your inti\u00adma\u00adcy, pro\u00advi\u00added&nbsp;:\n \t<li>To have lear\u00adned how to argue <i>\u00ab&nbsp;well&nbsp;\u00bb<\/i>, i.e. without vio\u00adlence, with res\u00adpect\u2026 This is what we teach you to do in <strong><a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"http:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/\/en\/premarital-counseling-course\/#sessions-details\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ses\u00adsion 4 of the Unio pre\u00adma\u00adri\u00adtal cou\u00adse\u00adling course<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n \t<li>Kno\u00adwing how to repair what has been dama\u00adged when a conflict has gone too far, by kno\u00adwing how to <strong><a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/\/en\/blog\/handling-disputes-after-they-have-cooled-down\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">how to come back from the&nbsp;brink<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n \t<li>Unders\u00adtan\u00adding for\u00adgi\u00adve\u00adness and choo\u00adsing to forgive<\/li>\n \t<li>Main\u00adtai\u00adning good com\u00admu\u00adni\u00adca\u00adtion within the couple, even at the most dif\u00adfi\u00adcult&nbsp;times<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">Agree to seek help (with couple the\u00adra\u00adpy or mar\u00adriage coun\u00adsel\u00adling, for example) if the dia\u00adlogue has bro\u00adken&nbsp;down<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2237350f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2237350f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\u27a1\ufe0f Living as a couple, having a ful\u00adfilling rela\u00adtion\u00adship, isn\u2019t just about enjoying moments of per\u00adfect har\u00admo\u00adny, it\u2019s about confron\u00adting each other and gro\u00adwing toge\u00adther.\nBeing a couple is a won\u00adder\u00adful oppor\u00adtu\u00adni\u00adty to repair our\u00adselves indi\u00advi\u00addual\u00adly and as a couple.&nbsp;<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1138c6e elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"1138c6e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dispute-de-couple-2-jpg.webp\" title alt=\"dispute de couple\" loading=\"lazy\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c9a687 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6c9a687\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">2 \u2013 The <u>90\/\u200b10 rule<\/u>&nbsp;: an exploration of conflict and tension in relationships<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-317cb768 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"317cb768\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tOne pers\u00adpec\u00adtive we\u2019re very fond of at Unio for tack\u00adling rela\u00adtion\u00adship dis\u00adputes is the 90\/\u200b10 rule, put for\u00adward by renow\u00adned author John Gray.<br> \nAnd it could well change your love life and your view of rela\u00adtion\u00adship conflicts.&nbsp;<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0649c71 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0649c71\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Accor\u00adding to this&nbsp;rule,&nbsp;<strong><br>\n  <span style=\"color:#f19879;\">only 10% of our reac\u00adtions in conflict situa\u00adtions are direct\u00adly rela\u00adted to the cur\u00adrent pro\u00adble\u00adma\u00adtic situation<\/span><br>\n<\/strong>. The remai\u00adning 90% are actual\u00adly echoes of our past, unre\u00adsol\u00adved trau\u00admas or old&nbsp;pains.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ff151b9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ff151b9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThis means that the cur\u00adrent disa\u00adgree\u00adment (the sub\u00adject of dis\u00adpute at the moment) sim\u00adply acts as a trig\u00adger, awa\u00adke\u00adning pain\u00adful memo\u00adries from our his\u00adto\u00adry, whe\u00adther buried in our child\u00adhood, past rela\u00adtion\u00adships or even more recent events.<br>\nThe psy\u00adcho\u00adlo\u00adgy of couples is complex&nbsp;!&nbsp;<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-50dc8cb elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"50dc8cb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">3 \u2013 For a better understanding&nbsp;: an <u>example of the 90\/\u200b10 rule<\/u> in a couple\u2019s relationship<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7e0d0016 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7e0d0016\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Let\u2019s take an example to illus\u00adtrate this intri\u00adguing&nbsp;rule.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-93101ef elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"93101ef\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\u274c Ima\u00adgine Ludo\u00advic and Cl\u00e9\u00adment in the middle of a dis\u00adcus\u00adsion. As Ludo\u00advic shares a high\u00adlight of his day, <strong>Cl\u00e9\u00adment inter\u00adrupts to talk about din\u00adner plans<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-893695d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"893695d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tAt first glance, this inter\u00adrup\u00adtion may seem harm\u00adless, but it pro\u00advokes a dis\u00adpro\u00adpor\u00adtio\u00adnate reac\u00adtion from Ludo\u00advic, who gets angry, loses his tem\u00adper and furious\u00adly leaves the&nbsp;room.<br>\nWithout kno\u00adwing this rule, Cl\u00e9\u00adment might have thought that Ludo\u00advic was sim\u00adply tem\u00adpe\u00adra\u00admen\u00adtal, or had had a bad day. It could be an ordi\u00adna\u00adry cou\u00adple\u2019s quarrel.&nbsp;<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d476bd7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d476bd7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tBut Cl\u00e9\u00adment remem\u00adbers hea\u00adring about the 90\/\u200b10&nbsp;rule&nbsp;\ud83d\udd25.<br>\nSo he waits for Ludo\u00advic to calm down, and resumes the dis\u00adcus\u00adsion to unders\u00adtand where his reac\u00adtion comes from&nbsp;; in other words, what <strong>this situa\u00adtion has trig\u00adge\u00adred in him<\/strong>.\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f04bd4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6f04bd4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>As Ludo\u00advic delves dee\u00adper into his sto\u00adry, he rea\u00adlizes that his anger isn\u2019t just about the inter\u00adrup\u00adtion itself, but that it\u2019s actual\u00adly awa\u00adke\u00adning a child\u00adhood trau\u00adma. In his fami\u00adly, chil\u00addren\u2019s opi\u00adnions were often down\u00adplayed, and they had lit\u00adtle say, which left him with deep emo\u00adtio\u00adnal wounds. <strong>Cl\u00e9\u00adment\u2019s inter\u00adrup\u00adtion rekindles these old wounds<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d1fa6b9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d1fa6b9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">At the end of this episode&nbsp;:<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-51bc7c6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"51bc7c6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; list-style-type: none;\">\n \t<li style=\"margin-left:0px;\">\u2705 Ludo\u00advic knows him\u00adself better<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left:0px;\">\u2705 Cl\u00e9\u00adment knows Ludo\u00advic better<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left:0px;\">\u2705 Their level of pri\u00adva\u00adcy has increased<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left:0px;\">\u2705 In the future, Cl\u00e9\u00adment will have to be care\u00adful not to hurt Ludo\u00advic\u2019s fee\u00adlings with this behavior.<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left:0px;\">\u2705 In the future, Ludo\u00advic will be more aware of how to respond in such a situa\u00adtion (having tal\u00adked about it will pro\u00adba\u00adbly make him feel safer):  <i>\u00ab&nbsp;I am no lon\u00adger an 8\u2011year-old child, I am an adult in a loving and secure rela\u00adtion\u00adship&nbsp;\u00bb.<\/i>), rather than reac\u00adting without conscience.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d6bf55a elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"d6bf55a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4a3a7a5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4a3a7a5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>The\u00adrein lies the real trea\u00adsure&nbsp;: <strong>the mutual unders\u00adtan\u00adding this awa\u00adre\u00adness can bring to the couple<\/strong>. This inti\u00adma\u00adcy is essen\u00adtial to a las\u00adting relationship.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5063dff elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5063dff\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Ludo\u00advic can share his past with Cl\u00e9\u00adment, rein\u00adfor\u00adcing their inti\u00adma\u00adcy by dee\u00adpe\u00adning their unders\u00adtan\u00adding of each other. Cl\u00e9\u00adment, for his part, can offer his empa\u00adthy and sup\u00adport to Ludo\u00advic in his emo\u00adtio\u00adnal hea\u00adling process.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fdf9898 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"fdf9898\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Toge\u00adther, they can <strong>deve\u00adlop stra\u00adte\u00adgies to bet\u00adter manage future disa\u00adgree\u00adments<\/strong> and prevent conflicts from esca\u00adla\u00adting out of control.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-12d40b1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"12d40b1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/dispute-de-couple-1-jpg.webp\" title alt=\"dispute de couple\" loading=\"lazy\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0e1bf11 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"0e1bf11\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">4 \u2013 <u>Increasing intimacy<\/u> through couple quarrels<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2c44cd3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2c44cd3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>In concrete terms, <strong>what should you do when, during an argu\u00adment, you feel that you or your part\u00adner<\/strong> is <strong> <i>\u00ab&nbsp;out of line<\/i><\/strong>&nbsp;\u00bb with the situation&nbsp;?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4db6f7b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4db6f7b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">You can <strong>trade judg\u00adment for curio\u00adsi\u00adty<\/strong>, by asking one of the fol\u00adlo\u00adwing ques\u00adtions, for example&nbsp;:  \n \t<li>Can you tell me what you\u2019re fee\u00adling right&nbsp;now&nbsp;?<\/li>\n \t<li>Is there some\u00adthing, some other sto\u00adry behind your reaction&nbsp;?<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">Does this remind you of a past experience&nbsp;?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c4c8dd1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c4c8dd1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>This awa\u00adre\u00adness can pave the way for dee\u00adper, more vul\u00adne\u00adrable dis\u00adcus\u00adsions, crea\u00adting an enri\u00adching rela\u00adtion\u00adship environment.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c71fa20 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c71fa20\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>That\u2019s what true inti\u00adma\u00adcy and com\u00adpli\u00adci\u00adty are all about, when you want to build a stable rela\u00adtion\u00adship&nbsp;: not staying on the sur\u00adface of the cou\u00adple\u2019s dif\u00adfi\u00adcul\u00adties, and thus increa\u00adsing the love in the couple.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d1a2110 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d1a2110\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>This rule can be applied to a wide range of couples&nbsp;\u00bb dis\u00adputes. You\u2019ll pro\u00adba\u00adbly dis\u00adco\u00adver a lot of things beneath the surface\u2026<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9394ad9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9394ad9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\"><u>For example&nbsp;:<\/u>\n \t<li><strong>exces\u00adsive jea\u00adlou\u00adsy<\/strong> may stem from a <strong>past betrayal or infidelity<\/strong><\/li>\n \t<li><strong>anxie\u00adties about finan\u00adcial mat\u00adters<\/strong> could be lin\u00adked to a pre\u00advious per\u00adiod of insecurity.<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px;\">\u2026<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7cd5338 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7cd5338\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tMany couples&nbsp;\u00bb pro\u00adblems go far beyond a simple mat\u00adter of mis\u00adpla\u00adced&nbsp;socks&nbsp;!&nbsp;<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-42ba8c3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"42ba8c3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CsIeC1jqrqK\/?img_index=1\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/Capture-decran-2023-09-07-a-11.14.07.png\" title alt=\"Disputes de couple\" loading=\"lazy\">\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d1e7734 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d1e7734\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\ud83c\udf81 <u>Bonus&nbsp;:<\/u> a little exercise to apply the 90\/\u200b10 rule in your love relationship<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1df9ce4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1df9ce4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; list-style-type: none;\"><u>We sug\u00adgest you take a moment to think&nbsp;about&nbsp;:<\/u>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\ud83d\udc49\ud83c\udffc the last time you felt like you were <i>\u00ab&nbsp;going cra\u00adzy&nbsp;\u00bb<\/i>.<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-left: 0px;\">\ud83d\udc49\ud83c\udffc the last time your lover reac\u00adted stron\u00adgly to an argument.<\/li>\n \t<li style=\"margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px;\">\ud83d\udc49\ud83c\udffc a recur\u00adring conflict in your rela\u00adtion\u00adship that trig\u00adgers a strong emo\u00adtio\u00adnal charge in one or other of&nbsp;you.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-46a82c4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"46a82c4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Each of you can reflect on what you think may have hap\u00adpe\u00adned in this situa\u00adtion, and then dis\u00adcuss the sub\u00adject in depth and in com\u00adplete vulnerability.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e7c4874 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e7c4874\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>We\u2019re sure it\u2019ll be a great discussion&nbsp;!<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-eb22571 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"eb22571\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Conclusion<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1aa96fe elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1aa96fe\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>At the end of the day, argu\u00adments bet\u00adween couples are not neces\u00adsa\u00adri\u00adly negative.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-63b1aba elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"63b1aba\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>In fact, they can be valuable oppor\u00adtu\u00adni\u00adties to <strong>bet\u00adter unders\u00adtand your part\u00adner, streng\u00adthen your emo\u00adtio\u00adnal bonds and deal with past trau\u00admas<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1981751 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1981751\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>By adop\u00adting the pers\u00adpec\u00adtive of the 90\/\u200b10 rule, you can deci\u00adpher the roots of your reac\u00adtions and trans\u00adform disa\u00adgree\u00adments into moments of growth and inti\u00admate sharing.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c93b8f9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c93b8f9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tSo the next time ten\u00adsion mounts in your rela\u00adtion\u00adship, remem\u00adber that <strong>behind eve\u00adry argu\u00adment may lie a hid\u00adden trea\u00adsure trove of emo\u00adtions and memo\u00adries to explore toge\u00adther<\/strong>.\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-18bdde1e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"18bdde1e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" 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We deci\u00added to get mar\u00adried and set about pre\u00adpa\u00adring for our big day with great excitement.&nbsp;<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-548e898 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"548e898\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tIt was great, but some\u00adthing was clear\u00adly mis\u00adsing. We wan\u00adted to <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">to give real mea\u00adning to our com\u00admit\u00adment <\/span><\/strong>and pre\u00adpare our\u00adselves properly.&nbsp;<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-114aa12 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"114aa12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThat\u2019s how Unio was born&nbsp;: the <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">100% secu\u00adlar &amp; online pre\u00adma\u00adri\u00adtal coun\u00adse\u00adling pro\u00adgram<\/span><\/strong>. <strong><a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/en\/about\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read more&nbsp;\u00bb<\/a><\/strong>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4019a43 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget 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data-widget_type=\"post-info.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-inline-items elementor-icon-list-items elementor-post-info\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-16d29b3 elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"far fa-user-circle\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-post-info__item-prefix\"> By<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tUnio&nbsp;<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-79092fb elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas 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elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3d58133\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-75d044f\" data-id=\"75d044f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-663e3d7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-theme-post-title elementor-page-title elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"663e3d7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"theme-post-title.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h4 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The power of marital discord&nbsp;: deciphering the 90\/\u200b\u200b10&nbsp;rule<\/h4>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b7b9a92 elementor-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-post-info\" data-id=\"b7b9a92\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"post-info.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-inline-items elementor-icon-list-items elementor-post-info\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-16d29b3 elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"far fa-user-circle\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-post-info__item-prefix\"> By<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tUnio&nbsp;<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-79092fb elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-calendar\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-date\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<time>15\/\u200b01\/\u200b2026<\/time>\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"loop-item\" data-elementor-id=\"289511\" class=\"elementor elementor-289511 elementor-84464 swiper-slide e-loop-item e-loop-item-288873 post-288873 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-life-together tag-couple-life\" data-elementor-post-type=\"elementor_library\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" data-custom-edit-handle=\"1\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3d58133 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3d58133\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-75d044f\" data-id=\"75d044f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-663e3d7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-theme-post-title elementor-page-title elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"663e3d7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"theme-post-title.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h4 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">10 relationship enemies to banish from your relationship<\/h4>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b7b9a92 elementor-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-post-info\" data-id=\"b7b9a92\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"post-info.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-inline-items elementor-icon-list-items elementor-post-info\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-16d29b3 elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"far fa-user-circle\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-post-info__item-prefix\"> By<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tUnio&nbsp;<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-79092fb elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-calendar\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-date\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<time>06\/\u200b12\/\u200b2025<\/time>\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"loop-item\" data-elementor-id=\"289511\" class=\"elementor elementor-289511 elementor-84464 swiper-slide e-loop-item e-loop-item-288846 post-288846 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-life-together tag-couple-life\" data-elementor-post-type=\"elementor_library\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" data-custom-edit-handle=\"1\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3d58133 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3d58133\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-75d044f\" data-id=\"75d044f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-663e3d7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-theme-post-title elementor-page-title elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"663e3d7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"theme-post-title.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h4 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Money Management in Couples<\/h4>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b7b9a92 elementor-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-post-info\" data-id=\"b7b9a92\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"post-info.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-inline-items elementor-icon-list-items elementor-post-info\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-16d29b3 elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"far fa-user-circle\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-post-info__item-prefix\"> By<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tUnio&nbsp;<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-79092fb elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-calendar\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-date\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<time>21\/\u200b06\/\u200b2025<\/time>\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"loop-item\" data-elementor-id=\"289511\" class=\"elementor elementor-289511 elementor-84464 swiper-slide e-loop-item e-loop-item-288797 post-288797 post type-post status-publish format-standard has-post-thumbnail hentry category-life-together tag-couple-life\" data-elementor-post-type=\"elementor_library\" role=\"group\" aria-roledescription=\"slide\" data-custom-edit-handle=\"1\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3d58133 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3d58133\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-75d044f\" data-id=\"75d044f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-663e3d7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-theme-post-title elementor-page-title elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"663e3d7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"theme-post-title.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h4 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Values in a relationship<\/h4>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b7b9a92 elementor-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-post-info\" data-id=\"b7b9a92\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"post-info.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-inline-items elementor-icon-list-items elementor-post-info\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-16d29b3 elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"far fa-user-circle\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-post-info__item-prefix\"> By<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tUnio&nbsp;<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-79092fb elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-calendar\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-date\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<time>20\/\u200b09\/\u200b2024<\/time>\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<style id=\"loop-dynamic-289511\">.e-loop-item-306871 .elementor-element.elementor-element-75d044f:not(.elementor-motion-effects-element-type-background) > .elementor-widget-wrap, .e-loop-item-306871 .elementor-element.elementor-element-75d044f > 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class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-75d044f\" data-id=\"75d044f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-663e3d7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-theme-post-title elementor-page-title elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"663e3d7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"theme-post-title.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h4 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">The importance of sharing quality time as a couple<\/h4>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b7b9a92 elementor-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-post-info\" data-id=\"b7b9a92\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"post-info.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-inline-items elementor-icon-list-items elementor-post-info\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-16d29b3 elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"far fa-user-circle\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-author\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-post-info__item-prefix\"> By<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tUnio&nbsp;<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item elementor-repeater-item-79092fb elementor-inline-item\" itemprop=\"datePublished\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-calendar\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text elementor-post-info__item elementor-post-info__item--type-date\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<time>18\/\u200b05\/\u200b2024<\/time>\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-swiper-button elementor-swiper-button-prev\" role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" aria-label=\"Previous\">\n\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"eicon-chevron-left\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-swiper-button elementor-swiper-button-next\" role=\"button\" tabindex=\"0\" aria-label=\"Next\">\n\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"eicon-chevron-right\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<div 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data-widget_type=\"template.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-template\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"section\" data-elementor-id=\"288784\" class=\"elementor elementor-288784 elementor-237836\" data-elementor-post-type=\"elementor_library\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-bbb04cf elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"bbb04cf\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-024c572\" data-id=\"024c572\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ece2625 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"ece2625\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Blog<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cc9de9b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"cc9de9b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Most popu\u00adlar articles&nbsp;:<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ad7bdd7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"ad7bdd7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"sidebar_article\" style=\"margin-bottom:0px;\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/en\/couple-life\/\">\ud83d\udc49 9 tips for a suc\u00adcess\u00adful rela\u00adtion\u00adship  [com\u00adplete guidebook]<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/en\/premarital-counseling\/\">\ud83d\udc49 All you need to know about pre\u00adma\u00adri\u00adtal coun\u00adse\u00adling course in 10 questions<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3718248 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3718248\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Cate\u00adgo\u00adries&nbsp;:<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-04cc1c5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"04cc1c5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"sidebar_article\" style=\"margin-bottom:0px;\">\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/en\/blog\/category\/life-together\/\">\u2764\ufe0f Couple life<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/en\/blog\/category\/premarital-counseling\/\">\ud83d\udc8d Pre\u00adma\u00adri\u00adtal counseling<\/a><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a1516a0 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"a1516a0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-30102fc elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"30102fc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u27a1\ufe0f Who we&nbsp;are<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ee2c12c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"ee2c12c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tWe are <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">Lysiane<\/span><\/strong> and <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">Romain <\/span><\/strong>new\u00adly\u00adweds and co-foun\u00adders of Unio pre\u00adma\u00adri\u00adtal counseling.&nbsp;<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c0814d2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c0814d2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tA few years ago, we were exact\u00adly where you are now. We deci\u00added to get mar\u00adried and set about pre\u00adpa\u00adring for our big day with great excitement.&nbsp;<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-548e898 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"548e898\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tIt was great, but some\u00adthing was clear\u00adly mis\u00adsing. We wan\u00adted to <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">to give real mea\u00adning to our com\u00admit\u00adment <\/span><\/strong>and pre\u00adpare our\u00adselves properly.&nbsp;<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-114aa12 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"114aa12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThat\u2019s how Unio was born&nbsp;: the <strong><span style=\"color: #f19879;\">100% secu\u00adlar &amp; online pre\u00adma\u00adri\u00adtal coun\u00adse\u00adling pro\u00adgram<\/span><\/strong>. <strong><a class=\"lien_html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.unio-preparation.com\/en\/about\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Read more&nbsp;\u00bb<\/a><\/strong>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4019a43 elementor-widget-divider--view-line elementor-widget elementor-widget-divider\" data-id=\"4019a43\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"divider.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-divider\">\n\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-divider-separator\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e777218 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"e777218\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">\u27a1\ufe0f Pre\u00adpa\u00adring for mar\u00adriage with&nbsp;Unio&nbsp;:<\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1f450ef elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1f450ef\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div 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